She Risked Her Voice to Become a Mother

She Risked Her Voice to Become a Mother

April 05, 2026 39 min
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🤖 AI Summary

Overview

This episode explores the extraordinary journey of Lise Davidsen, one of the most celebrated opera singers of our time, as she navigates the challenges of motherhood and her demanding career. Nine months after giving birth to twins, Davidsen returned to the stage for a sold-out run of Wagner’s Tristan und Isolde at the Metropolitan Opera. The discussion delves into her struggles with balancing her identity as a mother and an artist, the physical and emotional toll of pregnancy on her voice, and how a production centered on themes of birth and renewal mirrored her personal transformation.


Notable Quotes

- The voice has not changed, but I am a different person.Lise Davidsen, reflecting on how motherhood has reshaped her emotional world.

- She manages to make it kind of like a laser, but a soft laser.Zachary Woolfe, describing the unique power and beauty of Davidsen's voice.

- Singing felt like such a silly thing to do.Lise Davidsen, on the emotional struggle of leaving her newborn twins to return to her art.


🎭 The Rise of Lise Davidsen: A Voice for the Ages

- Davidsen is hailed as a once-in-a-generation talent, with a voice that combines immense strength and luminous softness, likened to the greatest opera singers of the early 20th century.

- Her breakout role in Strauss’s Ariadne auf Naxos showcased her rare vocal opulence, earning her global acclaim.

- The Metropolitan Opera has placed significant trust in her, banking on her stardom to revive interest in opera amidst declining ticket sales.

🤰 Motherhood and the Risks to Her Voice

- Davidsen grappled with the decision to have children, fearing the physical and hormonal changes of pregnancy could jeopardize her voice, her most precious gift.

- Stories of singers losing their voices post-pregnancy loomed large, adding to her anxiety.

- After two miscarriages, she conceived twins naturally, avoiding IVF to protect her voice from the hormonal impact.

💔 The Emotional Toll of Returning to Work

- Postpartum, Davidsen struggled with guilt and emotional exhaustion, finding it difficult to leave her children even for brief rehearsals.

- Her first performances as Isolde in Barcelona were critically acclaimed, but she felt emotionally detached, describing the experience as empty despite the ovations.

- The dual pressures of excelling at work and being present as a mother left her feeling inadequate in both roles.

🎶 Art Imitates Life: A Production Rooted in Motherhood

- The New York production of Tristan und Isolde introduced a concept of pregnancy and childbirth, resonating deeply with Davidsen’s recent experiences.

- In a poignant staging, Isolde’s farewell to Tristan includes a symbolic gesture of placing his hands on her pregnant belly, emphasizing themes of renewal and continuity.

- The production allowed Davidsen to channel her personal struggles into her performance, creating a cathartic and transformative experience.

🔮 The Uncertain Future of a Star

- Davidsen is at a crossroads, contemplating how to balance her career with her new family life.

- The opera world eagerly anticipates her future roles, including Wagner’s Ring Cycle, but she remains undecided about the long-term trajectory of her career.

- Her journey reflects a universal struggle of reconciling profound life changes with professional ambitions, resonating far beyond the opera stage.

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📋 Episode Description

Lise Davidsen is one of the greatest opera singers of our time — a soprano with a voice so rare, critics reach back a century for comparison. This spring, she has been starring in a sold-out new production of Wagner’s “Tristan und Isolde” at the Metropolitan Opera. But she’s also at a crossroads: Her first performance as “Isolde” on the Met stage came just nine months after giving birth to twins.


Today on The Sunday Daily, Natalie Kitroeff talks with the Times writer Zachary Woolfe about his recent conversation with Davidsen, and the unexpected emotional weight she felt while returning to the stage as a new mother. They discuss how a production centered on birth, death and renewal gave Davidsen a way to work through this seismic shift in her life, all while tackling the role of a lifetime.


On Today’s Episode:


Zachary Woolfe is a writer and editor for The New York Times.


Background Reading:


With Twin Babies, the Opera Star Lise Davidsen Wonders What Comes Next


The Met Opera’s Desperate Hunt for Money


Photo credit: Amir Hamja for The New York Times


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